Jacob Eli Lansdale, 16, of Richmond, passed away unexpectedly Tuesday, July 28, 2026, at Ray County Memorial Hospital in Richmond.
Jacob was born on November 26, 2009, in Cameron, the son of Adam and Brianna (Shaffer) Carder.
Survivors include: his father, Adam Carder of Liberty; his mother, Brianna Shaffer-Carder (Michael Groff) of Richmond; two brothers, Draven White (Hannah Kennedy) of Excelsior Springs and Rylan Short of Richmond; sister, Karleigh Shaffer of Richmond; niece, Millie White; paternal grandmother, Carol (Larry) Elam of Kansas City; maternal grandmother, Kimberly Moore of Parkville; maternal grandfather, Sam (Debra) Shaffer of Excelsior Springs; maternal great-grandmother, Ann Highfill; and his canine companion, Zeus Lansdale.
He was preceded in death by his paternal grandfather, Terry Carder, and maternal great-grandfather, Terry Highfill.
Jacob’s life was far too short, but in the 16 years he was here, he packed more love, kindness, and living into those years than many do in a lifetime. He was a student at Richmond High School and was loved by just about everyone who had the chance to know him. He had a heart bigger than himself and was always willing to help someone in need. If you needed something, Jacob was the first one there, and many would tell you he would have given you the shirt off his back without a second thought.
Jacob loved life and made the most of every day. He enjoyed playing basketball, listening to music, staying active, and spending time with his family and friends, who meant everything to him. His dog, Zeus, held a special place in his heart and was always close by. Jacob had a way of making people smile, and his kind heart, caring spirit, and genuine love for others are the things those who knew him will remember most. While his family wishes they had been given more time with him, they are thankful for every memory, every laugh, and every moment they were blessed to share with him.
The family suggests memorial contributions be made to the Richmond Parks and Recreation Department for the Cevie Due Park (Skate Park). They can be left at or mailed to Thurman Funeral Home, 507 East Main Street-P.O. Box 190, Richmond, MO 64085.
A memorial visitation will be held from 6:00 P.M. to 8:00 P.M. on Thursday, August 13, 2026, at Thurman Funeral Home in Richmond. Inurnment will be held a later date. Please remember to share your memories of Jacob with the family by visiting www.thurmanfuneralhome.com.
Source: KMZU, The Farm
